Finding Financial Solutions for Caregivers

April 23, 2025

How Advisors Can Help Families Unlock Equity for Care

Actual Case Study


The children, acting as Power of Attorney and Co-Executors of the Family Trust, applied for and were approved for a Jumbo Reverse Mortgage on their mother's home.


The loan was approved for $1.1M at a 7.5% interest rate. At closing, $250,000 was drawn to pay off the existing mortgage and cover incidentals. The remaining $850,000  was established as a 10-year line of credit (LOC), with the unused portion growing annually at 1.5%.


The initial annual interest cost on the drawn $250,000 is $18,750. Interest on the LOC is only charged as funds are withdrawn. The plan is to set up monthly draws to pay for in-home care services.


Upon the mother's passing, the children will inherit the home with a step-up in basis, eliminating capital gains taxes  upon sale. Additionally, accrued interest paid at the time of sale may be used to offset taxes on the decedent’s estate.



It’s a conversation I find myself having frequently—someone sharing their experiences as a caregiver for a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer’s. These conversations, while unique in their details, share a common theme: the overwhelming stress and uncertainty that comes with this responsibility.


Caring for someone with these diseases is a journey filled with emotional and physical challenges. As I once heard someone say, “If you have seen one person with dementia, you have seen one person only,” emphasizing that each case is distinct, with its own set of hurdles. No two experiences are the same, yet the burden on caregivers is universally heavy.


For many caregivers, balancing their own lives while tending to their loved ones can feel like an impossible task. They often belong to the “sandwich generation,” juggling the care of their children alongside their caregiving responsibilities. As the stress mounts, it’s crucial to remind them that their well-being is just as important as the care they provide.


The Financial and Workplace Strain of Caregiving


The strain of caregiving extends far beyond familial obligations—it also affects careers and financial stability. A staggering 61% of employees are caregivers for aging loved ones, dedicating an average of 20+ hours per week to caregiving responsibilities. Yet, many companies fail to provide adequate support or benefits, exacerbating the stress caregivers face.


The financial impact of caregiving cannot be overstated. In 2021 alone, unpaid care provided to individuals aged 50 or older amounted to $600 billion, reflecting the immense burden placed on family caregivers. Additionally, caregivers often sacrifice their own health, with one in five reporting physical strain and difficulty managing their own well-being due to caregiving demands.


For some, the weight of these responsibilities begins to impact their work performance, leading to job loss or the need to reduce working hours. With rising healthcare costs and the need for professional care services, many families struggle to find a sustainable solution.


A Reverse Mortgage: A Financial Lifeline for Caregivers


As financial advisors, you have the opportunity to introduce an underutilized solution: a reverse mortgage. By unlocking the equity in their home, families can free up much-needed funds to hire professional caregivers, cover the costs of adult daycare, or simply alleviate some of the financial stress that caregiving brings.


A reverse mortgage allows homeowners aged 62+ (55+ in some areas) to access a portion of their home’s value as tax-free income, all while continuing to live in their home without required monthly mortgage payments. This financial tool can provide the flexibility caregivers need to ensure their loved ones receive quality care—without depleting their savings or sacrificing their own financial future.


Helping Clients See the Bigger Picture


Many caregivers don’t realize they have options beyond depleting their retirement accounts or taking on additional debt. As an advisor, guiding them through the benefits of a reverse mortgage can be life-changing. It can mean:


  • Hiring professional in-home care so they can continue working without sacrificing their income.
  • Paying for adult day programs that provide social engagement and medical supervision.
  • Preserving their retirement savings instead of withdrawing funds early and facing unnecessary tax burdens.




Could This Strategy Benefit Your Clients? Let’s Find Out!

Do any of your clients fit this scenario? Retirement in Reverse would be happy to provide a customized, hypothetical scenario to help you assess if this strategy could be a valuable solution. Let’s explore how we can make it work for your clients!



Who would have ever thought you could use a reverse mortgage for this?

Today’s reverse mortgage is no longer the loan of last resort. It’s a flexible financial tool that can be used strategically for:

  • Charitable giving
  • Buy-sell agreements
  • Paying for long-term care or in-home support
  • Funding a business venture
  • Helping Grandkids Fund College Expense
  • Gift down payment to your Kids
  • Any many more….


It’s all about what the money costs. It’s just math.


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May 30, 2025
What Early Warning Signs of Dementia Should CFPs Be Looking For? As a Certified Financial Planner®, you're not just managing portfolios—you’re often one of the first people to notice when something is off. Subtle behavioral changes may hint at a deeper issue. Are you prepared to recognize the financial warning signs of cognitive decline? The Overlooked Red Flags in Financial Behavior Research shows that financial missteps may precede a formal dementia diagnosis by as much as six years. This is especially true among older adults who live alone. As cognitive ability begins to slip, so does financial judgment—and the signs often show up in your office before they show up in a doctor’s. Watch for these potential early warning signs : Hard to Prevent (But Need to Plan For): Rising care and medical expenses Reduced income due to a client stepping back from work to become a caregiver Potentially Preventable (Cognitive-Related): Missed bill payments, late fees, or declining credit scores Financial mismanagement, such as over-withdrawals or confusing multiple accounts Irregular retirement account contributions or hardship withdrawals Sudden, impulsive investment changes—especially during market downturns New, erratic spending patterns Uncharacteristic interest in "too good to be true" offers or unfamiliar financial products Growing vulnerability to scams or fraud Requests to sell long-term assets at inappropriate times I your client suddenly insists on selling everything at the bottom of a downturn—or makes large financial gifts to new acquaintances—pause. Ask more questions. Review recent financial activity. And most importantly, involve a trusted family member or advisor where appropriate. When a Diagnosis Happens: The Dual Household Challenge One of the most common scenarios you may face: a couple where one partner is diagnosed with dementia and needs full-time memory care. The other wishes to remain at home. This creates a dual-financial burden : Two households to maintain Memory care costs exceeding $10,000/month Little to no tax relief for care expenses Emotional strain leading to rushed decisions—often at the cost of retirement assets Too often, clients react by: Liquidating retirement accounts Tapping into brokerage assets Taking out personal loans or lines of credit These moves can trigger tax liabilities, shrink future income, and complicate estate planning. A Smarter Financial Safety Net: Home Equity as a Pre-Tax Reserve For many older adults, their home is their largest asset—but the most underutilized. Home equity, when accessed strategically, can act as a pre-tax reserve fund that supports long-term care while preserving core retirement assets. A reverse mortgage or reverse second can offer: ✔ Non-taxable access to funds ✔ No monthly repayment requirement ✔ Protection for the healthy spouse to remain in the home ✔ Cash flow continuity—without disturbing invested assets By setting up this reserve before a health crisis, you give your clients options—not ultimatums. How to Start the Conversation These conversations are delicate. Clients may be unaware of their missteps, or even actively trying to hide them. Approach with compassion, and consider involving: Family members Elder law attorneys Geriatric care managers or social workers As a CFP®, you're in a unique position to spot the early signs and steer clients toward a secure and dignified future. Let’s Partner If you’re ready to explore how home equity can support clients facing cognitive decline—or to help prepare long before a diagnosis— we’re here to collaborate . At Retirement In Reverse, we offer objective, competent advice with no conflicts of interest. We don’t sell financial products or manage portfolios—we simply help you protect your clients' long-term stability and quality of life. Let’s talk about solutions. Before the crisis.
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